How we choose?

What is it that we really want in our lives? 

Which thing keeps us engaged in its own loop for our maximum amount of time?

Why is it that answering any of the above two questions seem easy at first but then slowly takes us away in our thoughts making us less aware of what the reply really should be? 

It is totally our choice to decide what we want to answer but that is not the exact point here. We talk about our preferences like we clearly know what we want to have or what we want to achieve. Most of the times, it seem correct as well because it is about us and the involvement of others are not involved, directly atleast. Indirect involvement puts forward many beautiful things to consider including our surrounding, peer relations, inspiration, habit of comparison, influence, systematic relationships, respect, order and many more things.

Wanting something to come to us, wishing something good to happen to us or even wondering what would lead us to achieve that thing, is all coordinated and lets us decide after making us jumbled up between all three of them. Their aim is not to make us less capable of understanding but to make us more susceptible to confusions and then to pave our way out of all and finally reaching a decision. But even after that the path is still ambivalent for anyone to mark out.

The constant tendency to fluctuate and to shift is something considered way too normal for all generation of people. Our deciding factors are what decides our actions. The dependency is mutual, although it seems unidirectional, and it is because the factors themselves are conditional. These conditions again depends on our grasp of the situation and finally the situation comes into action because of our movement towards one over the other.

Our engagement entrust our true idea of involving ourselves in one situation that builds the whole picture eventually. What I overall meant is that the abstractness that the question carry is not particularly viewed like that by majority of us. We comprehend it with supporting statements, facts and references. But then again, it's individual based and definition for explaining it as an umbrella concept is what is abstract in doing. The stimulation of any process leading to this is what makes us different and unique, no matter what it is.