Destiny

We meet new people everyday and we try to realise the concept of destiny. Destiny itself is very controversial. We meet someone nice, who turns out to become someone very important in our life, then that is destiny. Then we meet our enemies and people who do not like us or whom we hate, then that is also destiny. No matter what the situation is, what the true reason is, we never get to the point and the required explanation.

For us indulging in the very idea of just leaving it, is very frequently observed. Destiny or kismat, what we usually call it, is a niche that has inhabited our different states of mind. No matter who we are, we end up presenting it. Many a times, even individuals who realise the true meaning behind it, get themselves to use this word randomly.

What is Destiny? 

Is it a mind grown story term or a term of some insightful meaning?

Again, it will differ from person to person. One might find it useless and the other might find it of great importance. 

For me, destiny is a concept of explaining reasons which led to a situation that is non definable, a situation for which even after analysing it several times, I could not come to a conclusion. Then I say yes, that's destiny and it's fault.

Using the meaning of this word as a shield for bad moments and as a catalyst for good moments is very subjective.

The tendency of us should be to reach a proper explanation of every important situation or moment of our lives. 'Every important' signifies the most collected ones because the rate of occurrence of events in one's life is large and fast and tagging the random ones with the tag of so called 'Kismat' sounds and feels satisfactory and saves brain's time and energy.

But doing the same everytime is never fruitful. Suppose we ourselves made some mistakes and then instead of admitting our fault behind it, we started blaming the destiny. Is that right? Is that reasonable? No, it's not because the whole idea of existence of destiny was to lower the load on us to leave the random events. I do not mean to exclude the existence of those random events, because many a times in the path of realisation of our own steps, a connective link of these random events are necessary to get the puzzle solved. This must be quite relatable and way too simple to understand.

But for us to understand, implementation is the key. Destiny term itself has a very distinct existence and a safe hide for us to go.

Not accepting the reality and roaming around the bush won't help. Whether we want it or not but the need is for us to reach a set of conclusions for our destinies to rest and to regenerate itself to be used in times needed when all the available possible as well as impossible explanations are not existential and a condition of desperation is prevalent.

I would like to conclude by saying,

Destiny is for us to hide,
    But it is where we have started to reside.
We need to realise and decide,
     How it originates and how it flies.

Comment below and let me know your's idea about destiny and it's actions.🤗🤗