Hold it together

Collection is a verb that defines the work of submission. People have different interest towards a particular thing. They see it differently, perceive it differently and try to imbibe or absorb it differently. 

See, basically the way you describe a thing, the way you empower it says a lot about you, your attitude, your personality and demeanor.

I am very fond of collecting memories in every best possible way that I can find. I have my own small suitcase filled with my tokens of happiness that I have preserved since I came to realise the true value of it.

Same way many people have a tendency to accumulate enemies, lies, fear and selfishness as their souvenirs. I already said that, the way you present something, says a lot about you. 

If your life is full of unjust elements and lies, do you think you will be able to hold it together till the end?

If your life is full of fear, do you think you will be able to do anything out of ordinary?

If your life is full of enemies, do you think you will be able to succeed in such situations?

If your life is full of selfishness then you might achieve great success, but do you think that you will be having someone beside you to celebrate that success with you?

Think about it. Ask yourselves?

Honestly speaking, it is not in our hands to do anything about it because the direct control is random, once it's initiated. 

Anything that happens, anything that activates itself always needs inoculum of some sort, like a seed is needed to grow a plant. Destiny decides the result when the initial cultivation is natural. Artificial or forced inoculation is controlled whether for positive results or for negative.

The concept of not knowing what might happen in the future, keeps our senses and mind always active. This idea itself pulls that adrenaline trigger in our body and keeps it going. But the generator can stop as well. Refueling is necessary otherwise mid way haults become permanent.

Now, let's get to the positive aspect of it. Foes, lies, fear, selfishness, all these need to be collected sometimes. I will try to explain why.

If you have foes, then you will get the motivation to do something which is better than them and which will piss them off too.

If you are selfish, then it allows you to achieve what your dream and no deflection happens.

If you are scared, then all your senses are 200% effective and allows you to work accordingly with full potential and directions.

If you lie, then sometimes those lies are meant to be presented for the benefit of one section or group without hampering the other group.

Look, if you try to find a positive side in something, you will get that. But the only exception is that there are some particular things and situations that are completely wrong and should never be messed up with. Apart from those fixed particular things, every other item, expression, feeling have both sides. 

Our decision is based more on experience and socialisation that we receive. The failure of realisation of what's wrong happens, one reason can be socialisation.

Try not to mix up pasta and custard because you know it won't taste good. Try not to indulge yourselves in collection of such cults which may lead you down, one day. Instead you should try, at times, to make pasta neither with a red sauce nor with the white sauce. Try to imagine more, feel more and collect more of your's good will and enthusiasm that will help you to leap ahead.

We all make mistakes and each and every mistake has a lasting impact on our lives. It may last from one minute to one month to one year to our whole life. But it surely does affect our collection of priorities. We sort it out and then we move ahead. Do we ever turn back to see our way of moving ahead? 

Frankly speaking, the moment we move past it, we completely forget about it. The concept of clinging to our mistakes is what makes our body to drain out it's energy.

One winning manta that I believe in it is-

Don't clinge to your mistakes,
Walk through the gate.
Move ahead with confidence,
Remembering the mistake as instance.

Now comment below and let me know your way of distinguishing between both the sides of all the aspects mentioned above.🤔🤔