Biting my lower lip

Opportunities and Admiration

Motivation and Inspiration

Pride and Success

Credits and Devotion

Realisation and Acceptance

All these words are self satisfactory. They feel like icing on an already cremè coated cake.

But with these comes,

Failure and Disappointment

Scarcity and Compromisation

Rigidity and Disapproval

And that's when we turn to reality.

See, there are two kind of situations for which we take a step forward. One where we already know what's ahead of us and we take that path. Whether that path is going to lead us to success or not, that is a completely different story for us to explore later.

The second where we do not know what's ahead of us but still crawl towards that path in order to know, to find out. The path where we move ahead and face what we call a success or a failure.

Failure is something, like a blood sucking dracula sucking out our blood and turning us into the undead. 

Little dramatic, right! But the situation is quite similar.

Failure is something that we never hope for, we never want it and neither we expect it to come to our way but when it does,it torn us apart. Many loose their mind and many turn evil but many gear up as well and build themselves.

Irony, right!

Suppose there are two multiple choice questions where we are given four options to choose the correct answer from. For the first question, we already know the answer and we know that after marking the option we will get full marks. That's path 1.

If in any case we would have not known any of the four options of the second question, then we will still answer to test our luck and to find out whether our guess turns out to be correct or not. This is nearly equal to the path 2 that I talked about earlier.

Don't get confused and consider it a situational co-relation.

When we start something new or fresh, we always have a doubt in our mind where we think about its probability of being a success or failure. But we never have a perfect answer, most of the times, and to get one we have to stick till the end.

It is very easy to say 'Cheer up, Don't worry, you will do better next time'. Is there any guarantee that we will do better next time? Is there any way to make sure that we won't face failure next time?

I know one thing and that is that if we analyse what led to our bad faith and make a pattern out of it, then we will be able to achieve not being failed next time. There is no guarantee but there is hope which makes us try more.

Not getting something that you want desperately gives you a feeling of anger and makes you more impatient about it. It is more natural to be like that in that situation but can we try to make a escape route out of it. I think we can but it totally depends on a person's own perspective and judgement of the situation.

See, I know saying this is very easy. But the only thing that can make us get out of the tragic drama and consequences of failure is, we ourselves. Nobody but us. Surroundings can push you and can act as catalysts to lower the activation energy but still we ourselves will have to cross the energy barrier to give the desired product.

Sorry, for that chemical explanation. All in all, we are responsible for our doing and so we should mend out route to avoid the consequences and circumstances.

A escape route can be in a form of expression that we make or a step that we take to pull ourselves out of it or a help that we take from somebody whom we trust to take us out of there. 

It can be anything, I am just implying that I, you and we, all have a escape route for ourselves. All we need to do is to realise and accept it and try to keep modulating it in our own way.

Having said that possibilities never leave us, as I mentioned in my earlier article. Here also, there is another possibility and choice where we should try to cope up with the after events of the failure. I know it will break us, but time by time we will grow more and when we will reach our goal, we will feel dumbstruck by realising how much we have faced to achieve it.

Time by time, we should allow ourselves to fall down, maintaining a bridge between the escape route and our failure's consequences and working accordingly, doing both and enjoying the benefits of both.

That's it for today's article. Now I will leave you all to decide what's your esc

ape root maybe and how you will face your hardships when you decide to ditch the escape route and to follow the death route.

Again dramatic, Hun!!

Comment and let me know.🤗🤗